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06-10-2015, 20:10

“Know that not everyone is suitable to be your friend.

You must verify that this potential friend has the necessary characteristics that make friendship with him something to be desired.

The one you seek to befriend must have five characteristics:

-He must be intelligent, as there is no good in befriending an idiot, as he will only harm you when he wants to benefit you. By intelligent, we mean one who understands things as they are, either on his own, or if they are explained to him;

-He must have good manners, and this is a must. One who is simply intelligent might be overcome by anger or desire, and obey his desire. Thus, there would be no benefit in befriending him;

-He must not be a fasiq, as such a person would not fear Allah, and whoever does not fear Allah cannot be trusted;

-He must not be an innovator, as his abundance of innovation is feared from befriending him.

-He should not be eager for the dunya.”

Ibn Qudamah al-Maqdisi Mukhtasar Minhaj al-Qasidin’; p. 126-132


06-10-2015, 20:14


ik kan met iedereen omgaan die oprecht is en streeft om een goede moslim te zijn

06-10-2015, 20:18
En soms er zitten specialen tussen

06-10-2015, 20:29
Alhamdoulilah zuster als je zo een speciale zuster hebt,hou haar vast zodat je van elkaar kunnen leren en kunnen streven naar het goede in deze wereld en in het hiernamaals. In cha Allah

06-10-2015, 20:38


Choosing Friends Wisely – Shaykh Rabee | Abu Muhammad Al Maghribee [Audio|En]

http://salaf-us-saalih.com/2015/06/08/choosing-friends-wisely/

The Role of Bad Company in Ruining the Identity of a Muslim – Shaykh Abdullah an-Najmi [Audio|Ar-En]

http://salaf-us-saalih.com/2014/06/13/the-role-of-bad-company-in-ruining-the-identity-of-a-muslim-shaykh-abdullah-an-najmi/

Over Socializing – Having too many acquaintances – Sufyaan ath-Thawri

http://salaf-us-saalih.com/2010/07/27/over-socializing-having-too-many-acquaintances/

The Sunni Guards His Companionship – Abu Iyaadh Amjad Rafiq [Audio|En]

http://salaf-us-saalih.com/2015/07/16/the-sunni-guards-his-companionship/

Knowing a Man by his Moves – Sayings of the Salaf

http://salaf-us-saalih.com/2012/04/04/knowing-a-man-by-his-moves/

06-10-2015, 20:47
Jazzakallahu khayran voor de aanvulling. Opdat het van profijt mag zijn incha allah

06-10-2015, 20:56
Wa djazaaki Allaahu gairaan

06-10-2015, 21:05

Citaat door Salafi_:
Wa djazaaki Allaahu gairaan
Allahouma amin -goedzo-

06-10-2015, 22:22
In shaa Allah

06-10-2015, 23:53
Baarak Allahu fieki.

07-10-2015, 07:36
Good Companionship & Bad Companionship By Hasan Somali

http://www.salafisounds.com/good-companionship-bad-companionship-by-hasan-somali/