What is permissible for a husband
to have from his wife after contracting marriage
Q: What is permissible for a husband to have from his wife after the marriage contract and before consummating the marriage with her?
A: It is permissible to have what all husband may have from their wives, but it is better to wait until the marriage is consummated. If one needs to visit her and communicate with her, with the permission of her family, for a certain matter, it is permissible. And if they sit in seclusion, with her family's permission, that would be permissible. However, if they both do that secretly, that would incur danger, as she might be pregnant and then people might think ill of her or he might deny that he had sexual intercourse with her, and that would constitute a Fitnah (sedition) and a manifest evil.
(Part No. 21; Page No. 209)
So, one should be patient and abstain from having sexual intercourse with his wife until it is possible to consummate marriage with her. If it be necessary for him to communicate with her, let that be in the presence of her father, mother or brother so as to avoid anything that might lead to a bad ending. May Allah grant us all success.
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