Haha ja ik sport overdag ook wel maar niet zo fanatiek als in de nachtGeplaatst door NotInTheMood
Hahahaha mijn telefoon houd me ook altijd bezig
Dan is het een beetje lastig, misschien gaan sporten zodat je moe thuis komt. Hoef je niet om 3uur in de nacht buikspieroefeningen te doen
Ik heb vandaag gezwommen, veel baantjes net een klein kind ben ik als ik water ziedus ben ook best moe en ik denk dat ik nu wel in slaap zou kunnen vallen maar fadjr is over driekwartier
Wat houdt jou nu bezig?
"A woman's heart should be so lost in Allah, that a man needs to seek Him in order to find her."
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MVC Premium Ayoooow ik zou echt allang in slaap zijn gevallen. Na het zwemmen ben ik meestal kapoootHaha ja ik sport overdag ook wel maar niet zo fanatiek als in de nacht
Ik heb vandaag gezwommen, veel baantjes net een klein kind ben ik als ik water zie
Wat houdt jou nu bezig?Bikkel jij!
Ah ja zou echt zonde zijn om nu te gaan slapen. Nog effetjes volhouden!
Mijn kat deed effe stom, maar hij is eindelijk in slaap gevallen.
Denk dat ik ook even tot Fadjer wacht. Begin slaperig te worden
Woman are not complicated. Seriously. How hard is it to say ''You're pretty'' and give us chocolate?
Hahaha geweldig deze meme's!
Ik ben in slaap gevallen, heb fadjr gelukkig halfuur voor shoroq nog gehaald pff..Ayoooow ik zou echt allang in slaap zijn gevallen. Na het zwemmen ben ik meestal kapooot
Ah ja zou echt zonde zijn om nu te gaan slapen. Nog effetjes volhouden!
Mijn kat deed effe stom, maar hij is eindelijk in slaap gevallen.
Denk dat ik ook even tot Fadjer wacht. Begin slaperig te worden
Heb je een kat? *bigeyes*
"A woman's heart should be so lost in Allah, that a man needs to seek Him in order to find her."
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MVC Premium Haha good. Lekker geslapen?
Ja echt een kutbeest somsHele nacht wild doen en willen spelen. Maar wanneer ik wil spelen heeft hij geen zin en gaat ie slapen
Woman are not complicated. Seriously. How hard is it to say ''You're pretty'' and give us chocolate?
Subhan Allaah. hier ook al zo'n topic.
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Ik wil er zo graag 1 maar mijn moeder is er fel op tegen! Je wilt niet weten haha sinds ik ukkepuk ben droom ik eroverHaha good. Lekker geslapen?
Ja echt een kutbeest soms
Zodra ik een eigen huis heb, haal ik een kleine kitten inshaAllah nog voordat ik een bankstel heb ghehe.
"A woman's heart should be so lost in Allah, that a man needs to seek Him in order to find her."
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MVC Premium Haha vroeger mocht ik er ook geen van mama. Maar toen vonden we zo'n kleine zwerfkatje en sindsdien was.mijn ma er helemaal verliefd opIk wil er zo graag 1 maar mijn moeder is er fel op tegen! Je wilt niet weten haha sinds ik ukkepuk ben droom ik erover
Zodra ik een eigen huis heb, haal ik een kleine kitten inshaAllah nog voordat ik een bankstel heb ghehe.
Insha'allah! Kittens zijn echt super leuk.
Woman are not complicated. Seriously. How hard is it to say ''You're pretty'' and give us chocolate?
Ik wil allereerst zeggen; sommige memes zijn grappig.. maar sommige zijn diep en diep triest.
Zoals die 'lower your gaze' meme. Wallahi, werkelijk schandalig. Dit is een wet van Allaah waar jullie grappen over maken.
What are the conditions for joking to be permissible?
Praise be to Allaah.
1 – It not should not involve any element of making fun of Islam.
That is one of the things that nullify a person’s Islam. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“If you ask them (about this), they declare: ‘We were only talking idly and joking.’ Say: ‘Was it at Allaah, and His Ayaat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) and His Messenger that you were mocking?’
Make no excuse; you disbelieved after you had believed”
[al-Tawbah 9:65-66]
Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “Making fun of Allaah, His Signs and His Messenger is kufr (disbelief) and the one who does that disbelieves thereby after he had believed.”
The same applies to making fun of some Sunnahs, an action which is widespread, such as making fun of the beard and the hijaab, or of shortening one’s garment, etc.
Shaykh Muhammad ibn ‘Uthaymeen said in al-Majmoo’ al-Thameen, 1/63:
“The matters of Divine Lordship, Prophethood, Revelation and religion are sacred matters which are to be venerated. It is not permissible for anyone to show disrespect towards them, whether by mocking them to make others laugh or to poke fun at them. If anyone does that, he is a kaafir, because this is indicative of his disrespect towards Allaah and His Messengers, Books and Laws. Whoever does that has to repent to Allaah for what he has done, because that is a kind of hypocrisy. So he has to repent to Allaah, seek His forgiveness, mend his ways and develop fear of Allaah, veneration towards Him and love for Him in his heart. And Allaah is the Source of strength.
2 – The jokes should only be truthful.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Woe to the one who tells lies to make people laugh, woe to him.” (Narrated by Abu Dawood).
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, warning against this kind of behaviour which some jokers are accustomed to: “A man may say something to make his companions laugh, and he will fall into Hell as far as the Pleiades because of it.” (Narrated by Ahmad).
3 – Not scaring people
Especially those who are very energetic or strong, or who are holding a weapon or a piece of iron, or who take advantage of the darkness and people’s weakness to use that as a means of scaring and alarming them. It was narrated that Abu Layla said: “The companions of Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said that they were travelling with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and a man among them fell asleep. Some of them got a rope and tied him up, and he got scared. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘It is not permissible for a Muslim to frighten another Muslim.’” (Narrated by Abu Dawood).
4 – Mocking people by winking behind their backs or making snide remarks
People vary in their ability to understand things and in their characters. Some weak people, those who like to make fun of others and wink behind their backs or make snide remarks, may find a person to be an object of fun for them and the butt of their jokes – Allaah forbid. Allaah has forbidden such behaviour in the aayah (interpretation of the meaning):
“O you who believe! Let not a group scoff at another group, it may be that the latter are better than the former. Nor let (some) women scoff at other women, it may be that the latter are better than the former. Nor defame one another, nor insult one another by nicknames. How bad is it to insult one’s brother after having Faith”
[al-Hujuraat 49:11]
Ibn Katheer said in his Tafseer: “What is meant here is looking down on them, belittling them or making fun of them. This is haraam and is counted as one of the characteristics of the hypocrites.”
Some people make fun of a person’s appearance, manner of walking or vehicle. But there is the fear that Allaah may requite the one who makes fun of others because of that. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “Do not express malicious joy towards your brother’s misfortune, for Allaah may have mercy on him and you may be stricken by the thing you made fun of.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi).
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) warned against mocking people and hurting their feelings, because that is the path that leads to hatred and grudges. He (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The Muslim is the brother of another Muslim, he does not wrong him, let him down or look down upon him. Taqwa (piety, awareness and fear of Allaah) is here” – and he pointed to his chest three times – “It is sufficient evil for a man to look down upon his Muslim brother. Every Muslim is sacred to another Muslim, his blood, his property and his honour.” (Narrated by Muslim)
5 – The jokes should not be excessive.
Some people joke too much and it becomes a habit for them. This is the opposite of the serious nature which is the characteristic of the believers. Joking is a break, a rest from ongoing seriousness and striving; it is a little relaxation for the soul. ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Azeez (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “Fear joking, for it is folly and generates grudges.”
Imaam al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: “The kind of joking which is forbidden is that which is excessive and persistent, for it leads to too much laughter and hardening of the heart, it distracts from remembrance of Allaah, and it often leads to hurt feelings, generates hatred and causes people to lose respect and dignity. But whoever is safe from such dangers, then that which the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to do is permissible for him.”
6 – Acknowledging people’s status
Some people may joke with everyone indiscriminately, but scholars and the elderly have rights, so you have to be aware of the character of the person with whom you are dealing. You should not joke with ignorant people, fools or people whom you do not know.
With regard to this matter, ‘Umar ibn ‘Abd al-‘Azeez said: “Fear joking, for it undermines chivalry and manliness.”
Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqaas said: “Set a limit to your jokes, for going to extremes makes you lose respect and incites the foolish against you.”
7 – The amount of joking should be like the amount of salt in one’s food.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do not laugh too much, for laughing too much deadens the heart.” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 7312)
‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “Whoever laughs too much or jokes too much loses respect, and whoever persists in doing something will be known for it.”
So beware of joking, for it “causes a person to lose face after he was thought of as respectable, and it brings him humiliation after esteem.”
8 – It should not involve backbiting.
This is a foul sickness. Some people think that they can talk about others, and say that this is by way of joking, but it is included in the hadeeth of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), “[Backbiting is] your mentioning about your brother something that he dislikes.” (Narrated by Muslim)
9 – Choosing appropriate times for joking.
Such as when you are taking a trip in the countryside, or attending a party in the evening, or when meeting a friend, you may relax and enjoy some gentle anecdotes, nice stories or light jokes, in order to generate friendship and instill happiness in the heart; or when family problems are taking their toll and one of the spouses is angry, some gentle joking may relieve the tension and cheer people up.
O Muslim,
A man said to Sufyaan ibn ‘Uyaynah (may Allaah be pleased with him), “Joking is not right, it is to be denounced.” He replied, “Rather it is Sunnah, but only for those who know how to do it and do it at the appropriate time.”
Nowadays, although the ummah needs to increase the love between its individual members and to relieve itself of boredom, it has gone too far with regard to relaxation, laughter and jokes. This has become a habit which fills their gatherings and wastes their time, so their lives are wasted and their newspapers are filled with jokes and trivia.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If you knew what I know, you would laugh little and weep much.” In Fath al-Baari it says: “What is meant by knowledge here has to do with the might of Allaah and His vengeance upon those who disobey Him, and the terrors that occur at death, in the grave and on the Day of Resurrection).
MVC Premium Je zou reageren op mijn pm.. ik wacht nog steeds.
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MVC Premium Hihi, jij ookZe zijn echt so cute.
