najib 26....joehoe ?????

[sherine]

hey najib slimme jongen even een vraagje ik heb gehoord dat volgens de islam in een huwelijk alleen de man moslim hoeft te zijn ??? is dat zoo ?? verklaring aub ??

[Masriya]

Origineel gepost door sherine hey najib slimme jongen even een vraagje ik heb gehoord dat volgens de islam in een huwelijk alleen de man moslim hoeft te zijn ??? is dat zoo ?? verklaring aub ?? Nee is niet zo, en wat vraag je hem denk je dat ik niet weet ofzo :ego: Mijn pappie was wel eerst met een Christen getrouwd, maar toen transformeerde die Christen in een Moslim, and thats my mammie :Iluvu:

[sherine]

ai :cool: echte liefde dus maar me zus had naar de moskee gebeld en had ze het aan een imam gevraagd.......duss all1 ze begreep die mocro niet 100% dus ze weet de verklaring niet

[Masriya]

Origineel gepost door sherine ai :cool: echte liefde dus maar me zus had naar de moskee gebeld en had ze het aan een imam gevraagd.......duss all1 ze begreep die mocro niet 100% dus ze weet de verklaring niet Ey zeg je zus dat ze naar mij moet komen :bril:

[Najib26]

Origineel gepost door sherine hey najib slimme jongen even een vraagje ik heb gehoord dat volgens de islam in een huwelijk alleen de man moslim hoeft te zijn ??? is dat zoo ?? verklaring aub ?? Daar zijn verschillende visies en interpretatie van. Eentje is dat de man moslim moet zijn en dat de vrouw in het Boek moet geloven. Dus een vrouw die joods of christelijk is. De meeste christenen van nu hangen niet de zuivere christendom aan. Zo geloven zij dat God Jezus is. De interpretatie die ik volg, is dat man en vrouw per se met een moslim moeten trouwen. IK heb daar bewijzen voor gevonden, zal ze proberen op te zoeken. PS: Je had wel een andere titel aan deze topic kunnen geven, dan hadden ook anderen je kunnen helpen :)

[sherine]

eyy meissie me zus is geen internet :nerd: Nerdje hoor :p maar ik was er zelf gewoon nieuwsgierig naar zodoende najib ewaaaaa je weet toch ;) misschien liggen we elkaar niet zo.. maar jij geeft gewoon uiteindelijk de beste advies dat kan ik niet ontkennen....nou niet gelijk kappie :ego: krijgen :p

[Najib26]

60.10. O, gij die gelooft wanneer gelovige vrouwen tot u komen als vluchtelingen, beproeft haar (geloof); Allah kent hun geloof het beste. Als gij dan vindt dat zij gelovig zijn, zendt haar niet terug naar de ongelovigen. Deze vrouwen zijn voor hen niet wettig, noch zijn de ongelovigen wettig voor deze vrouwen. Maar betaalt (aan de echtgenoten) wat zij besteed hebben. En het is geen zonde voor u haar te huwen als gij haar haar huwelijksgift hebt gegeven. En houdt niet vast aan huwelijksbanden met ongelovige vrouwen; maar vraagt om hetgeen gij besteed hebt; en laten zij vragen om hetgeen zij besteed hebben. Dat is het gebod van Allah. Hij spreekt recht over u. En Allah is Alwetend, Alwijs.

[Najib26]

Title of Fatwa Marriage to the Women of the People of the Book Topic Of Fatwa Marriage Question of Fatwa What are the rules for the marriage of a Muslim man with a Christian woman, with her keeping her faith? Content of Reply Islam has made marriage to Jewish or Christian women lawful for Muslim men, for they are Ahl al-Kitab, that is, People of the Book, or people whose tradition is based upon a divinely revealed Scripture. Although they have distorted and altered it, they do possess a religion of divine origin, and hence Islam has made some exceptions in dealing with them. The Qur'an says: "...And the food of those who were given the Scripture (before you) is permitted to you and your food is permitted to them. And (lawful to you in marriage are) chaste women from the Believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture before you, when you give them their due cowers, desiring chastity, not lewdness or secret intrigues..."(5:6) Tolerance of such a degree is a characteristic of Islam which is hardly to be found among other faiths and nations. Despite the fact that Islam takes the People of the Book to task for their unbelief and error, it permits the Muslim to marry a Christian or Jewish woman who may, as his consort, the mistress of his house, the mother of his children, the source of his repose, and his companion for life, retain her own faith—all this, while the Qur'an says concerning marriage and its mystique, And among His signs is that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell with them in tranquility, and He has put love and mercy between you....(30:21) However, a warning is in order here. In order of preference, a believing, practicing Muslim woman who loves her religion is preferable to a nominal Muslim woman who has inherited Islam from her parents. The Prophet (peace be on him) said, "Get the one who is religious and prosper." (Reported by al-Bukhari.) It is also obvious that a Muslim woman, regardless of who she is, is better suited to a Muslim man than a woman of Christian or Jewish faith, regardless of her merits. If a Muslim man has the slightest suspicion that a non-Muslim wife might affect the beliefs and attitudes of his children, it becomes obligatory on him to exercise caution.

[Najib26]

Details of Fatwa Title of Fatwa Marrying a Non-Muslim Male Date of Fatwa 17/ July/ 2002 Date of Reply 17/ July/ 2002 Topic Of Fatwa Marriage Question of Fatwa I am wondering if you will be able to give me some advice on a problem of mine. I live in the United States and I have many friends who are Christians. Some of these friends are males. Recently, my feelings for a male friend have grown deeper. I feel I am falling in love with him. It is at the point where I want to marry him, since he also has feelings for me. However, I do not want to commit anything that is against Islam. Why is it okay for men to marry Christian women yet Muslim women are not allowed to marry Christian men? That is what my parents have told me. I don't know what to do. Can you please give me some assistance? Name of Mufti Dr. Muzammil Siddiqi Content of Reply In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger. Dear questioner, thank you very much for having confidence in us, and we hope our efforts, which are purely for His Sake, meet your expectations. In his response to the question in point, Dr. Muzammil Siddiqi, former president of the Islamic Society of North America, states the following: “The issue of friendship here has nothing to do with being Muslim or non-Muslim. You should not have taken Muslim or non-Muslim males as your friends. The Qur’an and the Sunnah have given us rules about relations between men and women. There are two types of people: Mahram and non-Mahram. Mahram are those relatives between whom marriage is not allowed. Non-Mahram are those among whom marriage is permissible. Referring to this, Allah Almighty says: “ Forbidden unto you are your mothers, and your daughters, and your sisters, and your father's sisters, and your mother's sisters, and your brother's daughters and your sister's daughters, and your foster mothers, and your foster sisters, and your mothers-in-law, and your stepdaughters who are under your protection (born) of your women unto whom ye have gone in but if ye have not gone in unto them, then it is no sin for you (to marry their daughters) and the wives of your sons who (spring) from your own loins. And (it is forbidden unto you) that ye should have two sisters together, except what hath already happened (of that nature) in the past. Lo! Allah is ever Forgiving, Merciful.” (An-Nisaa’: 23) Muslim men and women can socialize among the Mahrams, but not among the non-Mahrams. When men and women are in the presence of non-Mahrams then they must lower their gaze. Allah Almighty says: “And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest, and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent, and to draw their veils over their bosoms, and not to reveal their adornment save to their own husbands or fathers or husbands fathers, or their sons or their husbands' sons, or their brothers or their brothers' sons or sisters sons, or their women, or their slaves, or male attendants who lack vigor, or children who know naught of women's nakedness. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And turn unto Allah together, O believers, in order that ye may succeed. And marry such of you as are solitary and the pious of your slaves and maid servants. If they be poor; Allah will enrich them of His bounty. Allah is of ample means, Aware.” (An-Nur: 30-31) He Almighty also says: “O ye wives of the Prophet! Ye are not like any other women. If ye keep your duty (to Allah), then be not soft of speech, lest he in whose heart is a disease aspire (to you), but utter customary speech.” (Al-Ahzab: 32) Hence it is clear that Islam does not allow Muslims to have friends from the opposite gender. Males should not have female friends and females should not have male friends. Non-Mahram males and females may talk to each other, but should not socialize or go out in parties. A single male and female should never be together in a place where they are all alone, isolated without the access of any one else. Islam has given these rules to save men and women from committing sin or getting involved in situations where they might commit sin. As far as the interfaith marriages are concerned, Islam does not encourage them. The general rule of Islam is that Muslims should marry Muslims. A Muslim male or female should not marry a non-Muslim male or female. Allah Almighty says: “ Wed not idolatresses till they believe; for lo! a believing bondwoman is better than an idolatress though she please you; and give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters till they believe, for lo! a believing slave is better than an idolater though he please you. These invite unto the Fire, and Allah inviteth unto the Garden, and unto forgiveness by His grace, and expoundeth thus His revelations to mankind that haply they may remember.” (Al-Baqarah: 221) The only exception is given to Muslim men who are allowed to marry the girls from among the People of the Book. Allah Almighty says: “This day are (all) good things made lawful for you. The food of those who have received the Scripture is lawful for you, and your food is lawful for them. And so are the virtuous women of the believers and the virtuous women of those who received the Scripture before you (lawful for you) when ye give them their marriage portions and live with them in honor, not in fornication, nor taking them as secret concubines. Whoso denieth the faith, his work is vain and he will be among the losers in the Hereafter.” (Al-Ma’dah: 5) For the satisfaction of your heart, let me explain why Muslim men are allowed to marry women from among the People of the Book and why Muslim women are not allowed to do so. First of all, it is not an honor or a privilege to marry a non-Muslim. It is a burden and a big responsibility. It is better to abstain from such marriages. Muslim men who are living in non-Muslim countries in particular should not marry non-Muslim women. However, man being the head of his household is more capable to handle the needs and problems of his non-Muslim (Christian or Jewish) wife. Muslims believe that Moses and Jesus, peace and blessings be upon them all, were Prophets of Allah and so they give them full honor and respect. Jews and Christians do not consider Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him, as the Prophet of Allah. Thus they are unable to give the same respect and honor to him and to his followers. A Jewish or Christian woman with a Muslim husband will be in a much better position than a Muslim woman with a Jewish or a Christian husband. Even then, there are many non-Muslim women who married outside their faith say that they wish their religion too had forbidden them, because they know how difficult and hard it is to be the wife of a husband who has a different faith. A Muslim woman should know that Allah has really honored her and made it easy for her by not allowing her to marry a non-Muslim man. According to the Qur'an, the husband is the head of the household and his wife should obey him. Allah does not put the Muslim woman in a position that a non-Muslim becomes her head in her own private life. Allah has spared her to suffer from being under the authority of a non-Muslim husband. Please abandon the idea of marrying a non-Muslim, unless he truly accepts Islam. If you marry a non-Muslim, this will be a major sin. You will be living in sin and your relationship with that non-Muslim will be illegitimate in the eyes of Allah. May Allah protect you from all sins, Amen.” If you have any further comments, please don't hesitate to write back! Allah Almighty knows best.

[sherine]

zooooo najib :schrik: dankjewel mannetje.....je heb echt je best gedaan zie ik... ewaa snap je nu waarom ik jou het heb gevraagd :blauwekus: ps: nu all1 nog de vertaling van het engels naar het nederlands :p fa2 ;)

[Masriya]

Origineel gepost door sherine zooooo najib :schrik: dankjewel mannetje.....je heb echt je best gedaan zie ik... ewaa snap je nu waarom ik jou het heb gevraagd :blauwekus: ps: nu all1 nog de vertaling van het engels naar het nederlands :p fa2 ;) Hallo ik ben er ook nog, je kan mij vragen om te vertalen :D

[sherine]

whuahuhauahuah je bent echt een gekkie jij :maf: van mij mag je het vertalen hoor :rolleyes: krijg je met je examens vast een 10 voor je engels hehehehe..... neeh ik kan wel engels moet me der echt even in verdiepen maar aangezien ik hier met half dichte ogen zit kom ik er alsnog niet helemaal uit...

[Masriya]

Origineel gepost door sherine whuahuhauahuah je bent echt een gekkie jij :maf: van mij mag je het vertalen hoor :rolleyes: krijg je met je examens vast een 10 voor je engels hehehehe..... neeh ik kan wel engels moet me der echt even in verdiepen maar aangezien ik hier met half dichte ogen zit kom ik er alsnog niet helemaal uit... Ok i you goodluck my inglish good is rait?:stout:

[sherine]

hahaha kom je uit mozambique ofzo :p

[Masriya]

Origineel gepost door sherine hahaha kom je uit mozambique ofzo :p Nein ik kom uit Paramaribo :stout: